Since nobody replied I will give my non racing experince advice.
For the diff use Amsoil Sever Gear 75W-110 or 75W-140.
I use their 75W-110 because I live in Houston and make about 400 whp.
Morepower and heat requires a heavier oil unless you add oil coolers and can keep the oil temps down.
Same applies to the trans.
http://ww2.amsoil.com/shop/by-product/gear-lube/
For the trans Red Line 75W90NS or Pettit's Revomax Powerblend semi-syn 75W90.